I Watched Marry My Husband (2024)

I watch K-dramas from time to time. It’s been a while since the last one, though, which was Business Proposal on Netflix. I’ve wanted another series that matched the levels of hijinks and drama in that one. And, low and behold, one of the serializations I read from start to finish got an adaptation this year.

Marry My Husband (which is available to stream on Amazon Prime) is a good adaptation that captures the overall vibe of the series as a whole. But, it’s not a one-to-one 100% accurate adaptation that includes every plot point from the comic. Some of the most marked changes came from how little screen time was devoted to the development of the other relationships outside of the main protagonists (Kang Ji-won, Yoo Ji-hyuk) and antagonists (Park Min-hwan, Jeong Su-min). And instead it centers the story on Ji-won and Ji-hyuk, while also making some smart changes that really emphasized the point of it: of the necessity of Ji-won giving her fate to someone else to avoid the misery, betrayal, and tragedy that jumpstarts the story.

Despite all the changes, this was still a great adaptation. One, the majority of the scenes I wanted to see brought to life was there. Two, the series didn’t mince how awful, controlling, and abusive (including domestic violence) Su-min and Min-hwan actually were. I mean, with friends (and a significant other) like those, who needs enemies?

The back and forth of will Ji-won escape her future or won’t she provided the tension and driving force for the story. It was so fun and satisfying seeing her gain confidence and scheme, because—make no mistakes—this is a story that is as much about taking back control of one’s life and finding happiness just as much as it was about getting revenge. Along the way Ji-won also gained a system of support and genuine friends.

I did like the way they used flashbacks, particularly for scenes where there was conflict and turmoil as well as where the future and the past (Ji-won’s present) overlapped. It revealed more of the characters backstory and also imparted information about sticky situations, without slowing down the narrative too much.

At the end of the day, I liked what they did here. One of the main takeaways is how people could change, and it was those who didn’t (who grew more resolute in their toxicity and capacity to do harm to others for the benefit of themselves) who fared the worst—and justifiably so—in Marry My Husband.

Music Monday (282): Brittany Howard, No Doubt

Rules:

• Music Monday is a weekly meme hosted by Lauren Stoolfire at Always Me that asks you to share one or two songs that you've recently enjoyed. For the rules, visit the page HERE 

Breana: I've been listening to Brittany Howard's latest album, What Now. (She was also part of the Friday lineup for Coachella, and I tuned into her performance during the Youtube livestream.) One of my favorite songs from What Now is: Another Day!

Andrea: Hi all! This week I'm listening to Don't Speak by No Doubt. Have an amazing week! 

What are you listening to this week?

Cathedral, Forge, and Waterwheel: Technology and Invention in the Middle Ages by Frances & Joseph Gies

Title: Cathedral, Forge, and Waterwheel: Technology and Invention in the Middle Ages
Series: n/a
Author: Fances & Joseph Gies
Source/Format: Purchased; Paperback
More Details: Nonfiction; History; Medieval Technology
Publisher/Publication Date: First published January 1, 1994

Synopsis from Goodreads...

In this account of Europe's rise to world leadership in technology, Frances and Joseph Gies make use of recent scholarship to destroy two time-honored myths.

Myth One: that Europe's leap forward occurred suddenly in the Renaissance, following centuries of medieval stagnation. Not so, say the Gieses: Early modern technology and experimental science were direct outgrowths of the decisive innovations of medieval Europe, in the tools and techniques of agriculture, craft industry, metallurgy, building construction, navigation, and war. Myth Two: that Europe achieved its primacy through Western superiority. On the contrary, the authors report, many of Europe's most important inventions--the horse harness, the stirrup, the magnetic compass, cotton and silk cultivation and manufacture, papermaking, firearms, Arabic numerals--had their origins outside Europe, in China, India, and Islam. The Gieses show how Europe synthesized its own innovations--the three-field system, water power in industry, the full-rigged ship, the putting-out system--into a powerful new combination of technology, economics, and politics. From the expansion of medieval man's capabilities, the voyage of Columbus with all its fateful consequences is seen as an inevitable product, while even the genius of Leonardo da Vinci emerges from the context of earlier and lesser-known dreamers and tinkerers.

Every so often I need a break from even my favorite genres of fiction, and, more often than not, I fill the void with nonfiction, as a pallet cleanser. Sometimes it’s true crime (Cult of We), history (Daughters of Chivalry, Meet Me by the fountain: An Inside History of the Mall), or science with a focus on nature (Entangled Life, The Death and Life of the Great Lakes, The Brilliant Abyss). I’ve once again returned to the subject of history with my latest nonfiction read, Frances and Joseph Gies’s Cathedral, Forge, and Waterwheel: Technology and Invention in the Middle Ages.

“A spirit of otherworldliness and a preoccupation with theology were perceived as underlying a vast medieval inertia.” Page 1

The book sets out to disprove that notion, and does so in a very technical manner. The bulk of the chapters break down the Middle Ages into chunks, either by “early Middle Ages” or by dates such as for example “900-1200” or “A.D. 500-900.” And it goes into detail about the notable achievements and the way the technology—such as the waterwheel, armor, weapons, bridges, cathedral building, and advances in textile manufacture, ship building, and navigation—were invented and found their way into different corners of the medieval world through various channels (trade was often mentioned). It often revealed the fascinating processes—and ingenuity—behind actually making these inventions (or improving on earlier discoveries) and how they were applied for practical purposes.

Some of my favorite passages had to do with cathedrals, paper, the printing press, and early clocks. But there was much-much more than that, and all of it was interesting to read about.

And, even though some of the descriptions could be frank and sometimes a little dry, overall I enjoyed this book for the sheer volume of information it had. And I’d recommend it for anyone who is curious about the subject.

 

Music Monday (281): Jungle, Kelela, Blanco Brown, and Luke Combs

Rules:

• Music Monday is a weekly meme hosted by Lauren Stoolfire at Always Me that asks you to share one or two songs that you've recently enjoyed. For the rules, visit the page HERE 

Breana: Over the weekend, I watched the Coachella livestream, and one of my favorite performances on Saturday was from Jungle. Check out Palm Trees!

Adri: I'm listening to Holier (JD. REID Remix) by Kelela featuring Shygirl. So, I could only find an official version of the original on Soundcloud. But I love both of them. I also love the visuals she's been realeasing for RAVE:N, The Remixes. For some reason I'm reminded of The Fifth Element.

Andrea: Hi all! This week I'm listening to Take Me Out To The Ballgame by Luke Combs as well as Sunshine Shine and Take Me Home, Country Roads by Blanco Brown. Have an amazing week!

What are you listening to this week?

The Friday 56 (247) & Book Beginnings: Cathedral, Forge, and Waterwheel: Technology and Invention in the Middle Ages by Frances & Joseph Gies

The Friday 56 is a weekly meme hosted by Freda's Voice where every Friday you pick a book and turn to page 56 or 56%, and select a sentence or a few, as long as it's not a spoiler. **Note: Freda @ Freda's Voice is taking a break from The Friday 56; Anne @Head is Full of Books is hosting for now.**

Book Beginnings is a weekly meme hosted by Rose City Reader that asks you to share the first sentence (or so) of the book you're reading.

Synopsis from Goodreads...

In this account of Europe's rise to world leadership in technology, Frances and Joseph Gies make use of recent scholarship to destroy two time-honored myths.

Myth One: that Europe's leap forward occurred suddenly in the Renaissance, following centuries of medieval stagnation. Not so, say the Gieses: Early modern technology and experimental science were direct outgrowths of the decisive innovations of medieval Europe, in the tools and techniques of agriculture, craft industry, metallurgy, building construction, navigation, and war. Myth Two: that Europe achieved its primacy through Western superiority. On the contrary, the authors report, many of Europe's most important inventions--the horse harness, the stirrup, the magnetic compass, cotton and silk cultivation and manufacture, papermaking, firearms, Arabic numerals--had their origins outside Europe, in China, India, and Islam. The Gieses show how Europe synthesized its own innovations--the three-field system, water power in industry, the full-rigged ship, the putting-out system--into a powerful new combination of technology, economics, and politics. From the expansion of medieval man's capabilities, the voyage of Columbus with all its fateful consequences is seen as an inevitable product, while even the genius of Leonardo da Vinci emerges from the context of earlier and lesser-known dreamers and tinkerers.

Beginning: "In the centuries following the Middle Ages, thinkers of the European Enlightenment looked back on the previous period as a time "quiet as the dark of the night," when the world slumbered and man's history came to "a full stop.""

56: "When European horsemen finally adopted the stirrup and matched it with the contoured saddle, they gained a dramatic advantage."

Comments: This book has, admittedly, been on my shelf for a while. I was in the mood for nonfiction and finally picked it up. I enjoyed it. What are you reading this weekend?